Friendship Check-In Builder

Create a short agenda for an honest friendship catch-up.

Choose a focus
Your result will appear here

Choose the options and press the button.

Free to use. No account required. Your entries stay in this browser. Sharing happens only after you choose a share button.

How to get a useful result

Friendship Check-In Builder is best for friends who want a short, mutual check-in without turning a catch-up into a formal review. It creates one check-in question focused on support, change or future plans. The result is a starting point, not a judgment or instruction that another person must follow.

Choose the options that fit now

The controls change the type of result, not the importance of the conversation. Pick the closest match and adjust the wording after it appears. No selection or generated result is sent to our server.

Adapt the result before using it

Each friend answers the same question. Keep the first round descriptive before offering advice or solving a problem.

Follow through once

Finish with one small plan, appreciation or follow-up that both people can understand and remember.

What the tool cannot decide

A generated result cannot know another person's boundaries, local details or the history of the relationship. Check the wording against the real situation. If safety, coercion, abuse or serious distress is involved, a conversation prompt is not a substitute for qualified support.

Three-step method
  1. Choose the closest context.
  2. Generate one result and make it sound like you.
  3. Use it once, then respond to what actually happens.

Find more context in the friendship guide hub and our guide to friendship check-in questions.